Monsoon 1,662 January 22, 2019 Share January 22, 2019 With anger or depression No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExplosionMare 18,062 January 22, 2019 Share January 22, 2019 If it isn’t anything serious (which it usually isn’t) I try to just move on from it. Eventually shame just turns into a small moment of confusion, and after that, I can move on from it. 1 Boom! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rainbow Dash 1,472 January 24, 2019 Share January 24, 2019 Usually go to the gym, triple my weights and convert that energy into fuel to lift. I also run, if its cardio day. Though, if im lazy (which, is almost all the time) I just sleep it off. R.I.P. Lord Bababa and Harmonic Revelations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 January 26, 2019 Share January 26, 2019 I simply don't cope with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treeglow Flicker 13,619 January 26, 2019 Share January 26, 2019 If it's something REALLY bad, then I do the only thing I can do to deal with it: Spoiler Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Mane 9,032 January 30, 2019 Share January 30, 2019 Not bringing it up in any way.Simply,forcing myself to act like it never ever happened. Avatar drawn by me, Signature by @Gone Airborne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyoshi Frost Wolf 41,350 January 31, 2019 Share January 31, 2019 I tend to drown myself in self-hatred, as a sort of punishment. Not exactly a healthy thing to do, but at least I know my place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucky Bolt 35,062 April 12, 2019 Share April 12, 2019 I just hide it, I guess. Keep it to myself, try forgetting about it. ☆ My socials ☆ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envy 6,144 April 12, 2019 Share April 12, 2019 Try desperately to put my mind somewhere else, or be crushed. My existence has always been a bit of a embarrassment, especially when I try to be a musician. However, the last time it happened - when I couldn't perform a simple solo at the beginning of an opera we were performing no matter how and how hard I practiced it (I could play it like 100% of the time by myself, I'm not even kidding. T.T), I asked to simplify it for the performances (after one, where it didn't go well. Ugh.). It really crushed me. I'm such a terrible musician. Even though that university no longer has an oboist now that I graduated, they're better without me. Anyway... Enough of that! What else I thought about during that time was going and getting mental help, because I'm convinced it's something wrong with me at this point. Everything needs more woodwind! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZethaPonderer 2,199 April 12, 2019 Share April 12, 2019 People have no shame these days. I cope with my shame by embracing it. Through embrace I understand why I feel ashamed and do whatever it takes to fix it. Shame is not an evil or bad emotion as perceived nowadays. It’s a warning sign emitting emotion to help you get yourself straightened out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monsoon 1,662 April 12, 2019 Share April 12, 2019 (edited) I get angry, so I tend to keep those feelings deep within me leading me to become monotone, however if someone does push me over the edge, I'll vent all my anger and frustration on them or myself. Edited April 12, 2019 by Dark defender 1 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oblivion 20,266 January 1, 2020 Share January 1, 2020 I usually tend to like to be alone for a bit until it kinda wears off a bit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 January 1, 2020 Share January 1, 2020 I don’t really it just bothers me till I eventually get over it. *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muffinnz 3,219 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 (edited) I hide away forever, have a mental breakdown then start getting bad ideas and almost pursue them Edited January 5, 2020 by Muffinnz 1 Signature made by me! @Muffinnz Ask me anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Claus 24,849 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 Usually confront them... angrily. But if it gets worse, I'll start to cry. Big thanks to @The Wife of Hawks, @Trix or Treatand @Splasheefor these images! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silver Gallantry 0 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 16 minutes ago, Emerald Heart said: Usually confront them... angrily. But if it gets worse, I'll start to cry. Same here. Though I do the crying bit 90% of the time... I always feel it's my fault for making whoever it is dissatisfied, even when there's no reason to think that way :/ It's weird! I don't usually confront them cause I feel like it'll make things worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pandora 38,015 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 Hide away in my room to cry wondering what’s wrong with me 3 #NoAI please be so kind to not throw my artworks into AI machines, This is something that unsettles me heavily! <3 Signature by @Moonlight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRockARooster 50,787 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 Sit in my computer room, watch something on YouTube and/or listen to music. I try my best to isolate myself from the cruel world. sig by @Kyoshi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StargazerDC 24 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 I've been there so many times I can tell you I've built up several ways to cope with it, it depends mostly on my mood. Sometimes I like to isolate myself, other times I try not to care, act arrogant or self-deprecating. Anyway it's few years that it is not happening to me anymore to be humiliated but I was very used to back then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Claus 24,849 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 49 minutes ago, Silver Gallantry said: Same here. Though I do the crying bit 90% of the time... I always feel it's my fault for making whoever it is dissatisfied, even when there's no reason to think that way :/ It's weird! I don't usually confront them cause I feel like it'll make things worse. I can't really think straight when I'm angry, which leads to "Scary Olivia" (aka me). I have a short fuse anyway... so that doesn't help. I asked an ex-friend of mine to NOT show a certain picture of me that I didn't like of myself to anyone, and she went around thinking that she was the most hilarious person ever and showed it to everyone in my choir class. I was FURIOUS. I kept shouting at her to knock it off, and that she was embarrassing me. But gosh darnnit she that she was SO DANG HILARIOUS and continued showing the pictures to my classmates. And that's when I started crying. I was so humiliated by that photo. Big thanks to @The Wife of Hawks, @Trix or Treatand @Splasheefor these images! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silver Gallantry 0 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 2 minutes ago, Emerald Heart said: I can't really think straight when I'm angry, which leads to "Scary Olivia" (aka me). I have a short fuse anyway... so that doesn't help. I asked an ex-friend of mine to NOT show a certain picture of me that I didn't like of myself to anyone, and she went around thinking that she was the most hilarious person ever and showed it to everyone in my choir class. I was FURIOUS. I kept shouting at her to knock it off, and that she was embarrassing me. But gosh darnnit she that she was SO DANG HILARIOUS and continued showing the pictures to my classmates. And that's when I started crying. I was so humiliated by that photo. My goodness! Even though you directly told her to stop for a hundred times, she still did it. In front of everyone too?? Good to hear that person ain't your friend anymore; I do hope everything's well with you after going through all that trash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Claus 24,849 January 5, 2020 Share January 5, 2020 (edited) 25 minutes ago, Silver Gallantry said: My goodness! Even though you directly told her to stop for a hundred times, she still did it. In front of everyone too?? Good to hear that person ain't your friend anymore; I do hope everything's well with you after going through all that trash. Yeah, I'm fine. I have a lovely group of ladies who are the best people in my life right now having my back. People can just be so stupid sometimes, and I hate that. Edited January 5, 2020 by Emerald Heart Big thanks to @The Wife of Hawks, @Trix or Treatand @Splasheefor these images! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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