mega thread What is your sexuality ?

[alpinefroggy 451]

I'm slowly coming to terms with being gay, but I don't really want to be. I don't know if I can handle this.

It's ok. Being gay is perfectly fine.

[Hovershy 3,814]

It's ok. Being gay is perfectly fine.

 

I know. I've always had nothing but support for gay people. It's just that I feel like it'll make my life considerably more difficult, and I'm wondering if it's even worth it to come out. Know what I'm saying?

[alpinefroggy 451]

I know. I've always had nothing but support for gay people. It's just that I feel like it'll make my life considerably more difficult, and I'm wondering if it's even worth it to come out. Know what I'm saying?

I do Sort of. I am bi, I got over the feelings pretty quickly because The environment I am in has lots of open lgbt people that others don't make a big deal about and that being lgbt is ok. In terms of internal homophobia as I call it I havent got over that myself but at least I've accepted it and am open if someone asked. Even though you may think it's perfectly ok all along to be gay or bi or what have you to people around you, once you go through it yourself it's just really stupid how society's perceptions forces you to feel ashamed

[Scrubbed user 3,416]

I know. I've always had nothing but support for gay people. It's just that I feel like it'll make my life considerably more difficult, and I'm wondering if it's even worth it to come out. Know what I'm saying?

 

About 4 years ago, I had come realize I'm bisexual. (2 months shy of 4 years actually) Just the actual thought of it over the next few days was fairly alarming. But then I was able to not just accept it, but embrace it. I feel the value of life didn't really change for me, I just now happen to like guys and girls.

[Trinitron Keys 89]

bi, versatile, and looking. :grin2:

[Winterbass 763]

I know. I've always had nothing but support for gay people. It's just that I feel like it'll make my life considerably more difficult, and I'm wondering if it's even worth it to come out. Know what I'm saying?

 

It took me years to come to terms with myself and it really isn't easy. It makes life more difficult even when everyone supports you. The best way to "come out" is to wait until a new chapter of your life opens up and then being honest with who you are.

 

For example, I realized I liked guys halfway through my middle school. My school was full of homophobes and retards, and even though I really wanted to just be myself, I decided to bite my tongue and wait until I finished my middle school. If I were to tell everyone, it would just make things a hundred times more difficult for myself. It made me feel pretty alone on the planet during those last few middle school years but I managed to pull through and chose to go to university.

 

At that moment I could just be whoever I wanted to be, I could be open about who I was because all those retards from the school were gone now or didn't matter anymore even if they would go to the same university. I would meet a lot new people and if I was just myself from the moment I met them, they won't hate or dislike me even when they realize I'm gay at one moment. Even if they do hate me, well that's just one less idiot in my life trying to mess with me.

 

I think that's the best way to "come out". Not by being in everyone's faces about it and not by pronouncing it on every website you're on, but by just being yourself and telling people when they ask or letting them figure it out for themselves. You'll get to be yourself and don't need to go through the permanent hassle of telling everyone or annoy everyone with it.

[TePineer 82]

I'm straight. It's pretty fun.

[Willow 1,008]

I think I'm straight? I haven't had any reason to think otherwise, but then again, I'm only 19. I mean, I've thought about what it would be like to date one of my male friends at one point, but I'm not sure if that was just a curiosity thing or not.

 

Edit: I guess what I'm trying to say is I don't really understand myself at all.

Edited January 19, 2016 by Ink Well

[Celli 4,337]

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.

I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.

What about you?

[Velcorn 279]

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.

I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.

What about you?

I'm generally drawn to a female-ish physique in people's appearance which is why I didn't really consider being bisexual or didn't really think about it too much for a very long time. I'm mainly sexually attracted to females and very few males which have to be very feminine. The "problem" is I'm much more emotionally attracted to guys or rather the personality traits or interests that are more common in guys, for example, playing video games, rational thinking, more laid back and chill etc. which makes it more likely for me to actually be in a relationship with a guy. It's weird.

[Celli 4,337]

I'm generally drawn to a female-ish physique in people's appearance which is why I didn't really consider being bisexual or didn't really think about it too much for a very long time. I'm mainly sexually attracted to females and very few males which have to be very feminine. The "problem" is I'm much more emotionally attracted to guys or rather the personality traits or interests that are more common in guys, for example, playing video games, rational thinking, more laid back and chill etc. which makes it more likely for me to actually be in a relationship with a guy. It's weird.

I'm the same way. I'm attracted to this guy I talk to, he's also Bisexual, I like his personality, and he's also pretty good-looking in my eyes. He used to be a member here. He's not interested in dating, but would love a good cuddling<3

Personally, I lean more towards guys being Bi. Don't know anyone IRL I'd love to date, though. :/

[Shimmer Sparkle 4,101]

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.

I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.

What about you?

In general, I find men that have a kind of lumberjack look to them, or just look "manly", attractive. I also like men who can easily express their emotions and aren't afraid to say what they're thinking. I've actually never dated anyone before the guy I'm with, though.

[Scrubbed user 3,416]

I personally am not exactly picky.

[Jokuc 8,173]

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.

I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.

What about you?

My my, are you talking about me? *wink wink* Haha but it's pretty much the same here. Lots of muscles and very masculine-looking is a no-no for me. Personally I kind of like people who look young as well. Feminine-looking boys works as well for me. Personality is important for me even when it comes to sexual attraction. I remember when I was young and there was this girl in my class that all my friends kept talking about how hot she was, I agreed that she had good looks but I wasn't attracted to her in the slightest because of her personality.

 

I'm the same way. I'm attracted to this guy I talk to, he's also Bisexual, I like his personality, and he's also pretty good-looking in my eyes. He used to be a member here. He's not interested in dating, but would love a good cuddling<3

Do tell who! :3c

[Celli 4,337]

 

 

Do tell who! :3c

Felix, I don't know if you remember him, but he was pretty active here from what I could tell. 

[Jokuc 8,173]

Felix, I don't know if you remember him, but he was pretty active here from what I could tell. 

The only reason I remember his username is because he has the same name as one of my friends. I don't really remember him as a user though..

[Scrubbed user 3,416]

This one? I don't really remember him.

[Ted Cruz 177]

You know what's gay? Haha... Me...

[Xylosian 140]

Heterosexual, women is god's greatest gift to the world.

Edited January 23, 2016 by SuperXylosian

[Valencia 9,504]

I identify as bisexual who dates more for personality , but I'm more inclined to be with guys

Edited February 2, 2016 by Inkie Pea

[Magic Note 2,748]

 

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.
I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.
What about you?

 

For women, it's their personality, first and foremost. For men, I prefer personality and their appearance, though I'm not exactly masculine looking myself. I'm too picky with who I want despite not wanting a relationship right now.

[rdgoesfast 25]

120% GAY
 

I like cute girls and smooches from them.

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.
I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.
What about you?

 

I like really femme ladies. Like think Rose Quartz from SU. It's not really like a feature but more like you said, just not masculine people.

[nevergrowingup 28]

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.

I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.

What about you?

I like girls that are chubby and/or gothic/emo, nerdy/gamer/otaku/brony(!!! would love a brony gf) or scene. Button noses are my weakness, too!

[IronM17 5,341]

So for those of you interested in the same sex, what kind of guy/girl do you like the most/find the most attractive? Not saying looks are the most important, just what physical feature you like the most? Nothing inappropriate, of course.

I like guys who look kind of boyish. Not young, but like, they don't have or have little facial hair. Basically, I like guys that don't look overly masculine the most.

What about you?

 

I like men who are not to feminine or to masculine. I also like guys who have not to much muscles and are not to fat (but a little bit chubby is nice) or thin. I don't look at hair colors / lenght or skin colors. And I really love beards (but that doesn't mean that I only search for men with beards XD). 

[Blaire D. Lycan 91]

i am bi i guess but um yea why?