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Have you ever been hit on where it made you uncomfortable?


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One of the reasons I stopped cosplaying at Cons. No offense, but a lot of guys take it as an open invitation to hit on someone dressed as an anime character. It's not quite being hit on, not exactly, but it's creepy as hell if guys ask you to flip your skirt if you're wearing a sailor fuku.

 

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A few instances where women hit on me and I didn't find them attractive at all. (Not that I didn't appreciate the compliment.)

 

Only time I would say that I was really uncomfortable was when a guy was hitting on me, and after telling him several times that I don't swing like that, he still wouldn't stop. He only quit after I threatened to push his shit in lol.

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There's been a couple times where it's happened...though, it's been from someone I already knew but had no interest in them...or they just rubbed me the wrong way.I've also had this much older guy hit on me....which made me very uncomfortable...considering he was old enough to be my dad...


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Yes, I have.  The latest were two "supposed" friends who were mockingly trying to hit on me and groping me.  I was getting revolted by it, as I made it clear to them that I am not interested in them.  

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One of the reasons I stopped cosplaying at Cons. No offense, but a lot of guys take it as an open invitation to hit on someone dressed as an anime character. It's not quite being hit on, not exactly, but it's creepy as hell if guys ask you to flip your skirt if you're wearing a sailor fuku.

 

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Yeah it happened to me too :/ I was dressed as Nami after the timeskip in One Piece (so the top of a bikini and long pants) and one guy just came straight to me only to talk about my boobs without even looking at me in the eyes... Ugh...

Cosplays that are revealing are definitely not an invitation for frustrated people to come to you just to be a complete perverted jerk.

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I was cruising years ago and I was by myself in a hot tub, hidden from my family (I had to be away from them for reasons). I was speaking with people as they came and go, and I was chillin', then at a moment, 2 people remained, a dude, and a woman. When the dude left, the woman rub her hands on my legs as an invitation for a one night stand (she seemed tipsy at least). I had on the surface a face of "OK, no big deal", but I was uncomfortable in my mind, as that was the first time EVER, for anyone to ever flirted me like that. 


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Oh yes. I've had it done by both male and female, but the worst case was a few years ago when I was at the grocery store and some old man kept on staring at me to the point it made me beyond uncomfortable. I got out of there as fast as I could.


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Yep. I've been hit on a few times in high school, which felt pretty awkward since I had no interest in relationships. :awuh:  But it did feel nice at the same time, "Oh hey, someone's into me!". :P Thankfully, they got the message after a while, and everything went back to normal after that (a "hello" here and there, some interaction in-class, and so on).


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No. People just don't talk to me in general. Something would be wrong if someone started hitting on me. Honestly, the only thing that even comes close is when we're in public and I make eye contact with any girl. Then my mom goes all, "Ooh, aren't you quite the charmer?"

 

No, I'm not, and I don't appreciate the sentiment. THAT makes me uncomfortable.

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Yeah, once.

 

Some old lady haha. Really awkward.

 

Luckily I usually get hit on by girls my own age  ^_^

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Yeah, this one guy on the bus kept "crushing" on me whenever we just so happened to be on the bus together, he would always talk about me to other passengers as if I were some sex toy he could buy.  Sad part was that he looked old enough to be my dad.  He even asked the bus driver for "assistance" even though I looked incredibly uncomfortable and shamed-faced(also I looked like I was about to cry).  Also, I learned that being female bodied and sitting in the back of the bus was an "open" sign to people and they would always sexually harass me just because of that.  I never felt so grossed out and dirty in my life...  As much as I liked living in my old town, I don't think I ever want to come back again because of that, even to visit.

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I've only ever been hit on/asked out once, and it was preeeetty uncomfortable. Some senior in my high school asked all of his friends to approach me and ask me out for him, while he hid behind the building (very obviously) and watched. I said no and they pretty much harassed me for the rest of the school year. He even shouted at me from across the school yard to at least sleep with him. Luckily, no one else was around.


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I'd be skittish without a doubt, but there's nothing wrong with a few more friends. Some of them are pretty weird, wait, no. All of them a pretty weird, strange, sick and twisted, but they're all fun! I'd say bond, get to know them with no romance factor to play with.


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Never have. Wish they would though but I guess expecting a mare to actually initiate is too much of a fantasy. :okiedokieloki: (pardon my sour apples)

The problem seems to be that stallions are expected to initiate a first encounter and so they attempt to through a small show (usually through a one liner or some kind of joke because they are actually nervous as all heck). However, if this goes the wrong way (eg. the mare finds him unattractive or if she's just not in the mood) it can be classified as harassment and all manner of bad things and (worst case scenario) the stallion get's arrested/fired/etc. Due to this threat the "good guys" don't initiate as much any more because the risk is too big, meanwhile the mares are wondering why none of the good guys pay them any attention....

 

Of course, then you have the socially unlearned, slimes and such that don't known or don't care about the risks and they do it all the time....

 

Can't win. Maybe the mares should initiate? When was the last time you heard of a stallion filing a harassment charge against a mare?


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Never have. Wish they would though but I guess expecting a mare to actually initiate is too much of a fantasy. 

First of all, why on earth would you want them to hit on you where it made you uncomfortable? Secondly, it isn't exactly rare for a woman to  "initiate". In fact, it's pretty common. 

 

When was the last time you heard of a stallion filing a harassment charge against a mare?

To be fair, horses aren't exactly known for filing harassment charges regardless of their gender.  

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I hated middle school...

In the eight grade, there was this one girl. My memory's a little off, on sec....

 

She was a new student, she came near the end of the year.

There was this other student, constantly harassed me. Not as a bully - well not as a bully most of the time.

Well she "stood up" for me when I was harassed by the other guy.

And she wanted me to stand up for her when he "harassed" her...

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He was prolly just flirting.....

Well for the rest of the year she would try to grab my butt or something - IDK, i forget it when noobs try to flirt with me

But at the same time I was a noob those days too. I did not know how to react....

 

 

And then there was this weird junior. I honestly forgot everything about her since she graduated.

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There was a guy in high school who had a crush on me. He used to like follow me around and stuff but I had a boyfriend at the time (from another high school) so that was kind of awkward. In hindsight I should have broken up with that boyfriend sooner, it was just a weird "relationship" We were just together for the sake of it really. I probably should have gone with the guy who used to follow me :P He was a nice enough guy.

 

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Usually it happens online. I get these random messages on skype from different women who say they're looking for some guys to soothe her *ahem* "urges." I don't encourages it, I just block her and delete her from my contacts. I just don't feel like exposing myself to unknown people who might take advantage of me

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