If your boy/girlfriend or spouse changed sex would you still love him/her?

[Midnight Solace 5,129]

I wouldn't mind. It's weird, yes. But I love them who they are, their personality, not appearance.

[Ricebug 555]

I'd love anyone and who/what they decided to be.

[A French Derpy full of Salt 404]

Because only her physical appearance changed but her mind/personality didn't changed, I would still love her.

[Here No Longer 5,270]

I'd be okay with it, but I'll admit it could be a bit awkward. I have this idea that I'd rather be the more feminine one. I've been struggling with gender identity since I was around 14 (even before I knew about it), and all the emasculating things I deal with all the time make me a little depressed (just a little...).

Though I'd probably be able to get over it, considering it's more about the person and not their outward appearance, or about my own wants. That would be really selfish of me to say "you can't because I want to." After all it's his (well her) choice, and I won't let my romantic preferences stop it from working.

I was asked this question recently and I felt like I came off the wrong way when I gave the answer to it, so here it is. It's fine. It'll be okay.

 

[alpinefroggy 451]

Well I changed sex, or gender, rather, and my girlfriend still loves me so

Edited December 11, 2018 by alpinefroggy

[They call me Loyalty 1,941]

Probably not, since I wouldn't start a relationship with people who don't accept themselves for what they are.

[Starlighty 790]

Are we talking like FULL ON sex change or just taking hormones/estrogen? Cause I don’t really count them as the opposite sex unless they get the whole enchilada....,

 

i don’t ever have to worry about this anyways my BF knows how bad all that stuff is for ya. 

[cuteycindyhoney 13,283]

If my husband ever had a sex change, I think I would have fun teaching him how to be a woman. Being bisexual means I wouldn't have much trouble adapting to having a wife that had the same mind and soul as the man I married.

[The Kaeya Simp 13,968]

I'd try my best to stay with him if he became a girl,

But sadly I think my lack of attraction to 99.9% of female humans would most probably get in the way.

 

I'd try to stay friends with him 

Edited December 11, 2018 by Sherbert MGS

[碇 シンジン 27,427]

I probably would get somewhere where I can be alone for some time to be able to figure out what is going on after that pretty sure the relationship would already be over

[Kevin Tang 2,422]

I ain't talkin' 'bout this

Edited December 11, 2018 by Kevin Tang

[JonasDarkmane 19,777]

That would require a massive change in personality on her part to actually do that. But I will entertain this question. 

So not in a sexual way, no. I am not bi in any capacity at all. I am a full on straight man (stop hitting on me guys). So sex and romance would become nullified. Platonic love, however, would be possible.

[TBD 17,228]

it would bucking awkward for me..so eh no. But I can still be their friend though.

[cuteycindyhoney 13,283]

How about if you could change bodies with your significant other?

[alpinefroggy 451]

1 hour ago, Bas said:

What is the difference between sex and gender in this context?

Gender being related to feelings of self with relation to what my brain tell me I am. 

Sex being something linked to karyotype and genotype. 

I am of the male sex. But my gender is female, girl, etc.

The way I define it and see it. I can't change my sex. But my gender was always female and so I never did ever change genders, 

[Lucky Bolt 34,914]

Honestly, I would most likely stop dating him, as harsh as that sounds. It'd just be too difficult for me, for a number of different reasons. Not to mention it'd be be super awkward. 

Probably still remain friends though. 

Edited December 12, 2018 by Lucky Bolt

[Cyclone 1066 3,616]

I don't know. I'd try to keep dating herhim, at least, until she swapped her thing for a willy. Then we'd go to Best friend status only.

[Lucky Bolt 34,914]

27 minutes ago, Cyclone said:

I don't know. I'd try to keep dating herhim, at least, until she swapped her thing for a willy. Then we'd go to Best friend status only.

Don't worry, that ain't ever happening. 

Edited December 12, 2018 by Lucky Bolt

[BritishBrony2012 719]

Maybe not, but love someone if she born a male.

[Fritzy 1,690]

Well of course I would. If I actually had someone that is. 

[daviddaviddavid 772]

I would. I always thought the answer to this question would be "no", but recently I think I've changed my mind. There may be other extenuating factors that might mean we're unable to continue our relationship, but I wouldn't actually stop having feelings for them, no matter what (at least within a romantic context).

[Here No Longer 5,270]

Now that I have one I will answer this again but with a different answer.

 

I think I'd have to friend zone him, well her after that, in that case. The situation would just be way too awkward for both of us, particularly me. But I would support, her, during the process as much as I could most definitely. Though I see it being more likely that I would get a sex change considering there was a time I pondered the idea in my late teens. I've settled on not getting one since, and am more settled now that I have a boyfriend (who has no interest in the opposite sex). Also, considering I'm the more feminine one in the relationship.

Edited November 13, 2019 by Ayyngel Dust

[Thuja 3,658]

Well, my opinion on this hasn't changed at all.  I'd still stick with them no matter their gender because I think going through a transition, one would need love and support going through it.  It's hard to transition when everyone you cared for suddenly were to turn their backs on you, call you names or outright abandon you.  It might take me a bit to adjust but I'm a big boy and can handle that.  Besides, I still think it would be nice to have someone who can relate with you in terms of how your transition is going.

[Steve Piranha 28,782]

I wouldn’t hate them, but I’ll definitely lose any romantic feelings and break up/divorce

[Early Sunsets 2,106]

I've thought about this a few times, and I think I would. It would be a little strange at first and take some getting used to, but they'd still be the person I fell in love with, so it wouldn't bother me too much.