Relationships

[Ninja Derpy 343]

I know right?

 

It changes so sudden and beforey ou know it you're into guys (or in my case both guys and girls)

 

GASP YOU TOO??

[JappleackWithApples 34]

i want somepony to date me. i have been lonly for too long...

[Jokarr 70]

been single for a about 2 years...last gf cheated on me, i put the guy in the hospital for it, he was my bestfriend at the time. Some friend in the end. since then i havent even had a chick look at me, get lonely, i would love a relationship but its not gonna happen in wyoming

[Fluttershy the Scout 6]

hopefully the girl i asked out to prom becomes more than just a date to prom i really like her.

[Roflmeow 5]

I'm in a long distance relationship with my current boyfriend. We have been together for a little over two years! We met playing TF2. I plan to meet him this summer. <3

 

Word of advise: Relationships are TOUGH. With me going to college and working and doing this LDR, we don't have much time to play games together like we use to do. If you really love each other, you'll get though, thick and thin. At least we can still talk, laugh, and watch the new episode of MLP every week! (He's a Brony, so it's awesome!)

[Retro*Derpy 3,182]

I am not in or have ever been in a relationship, and don't plan to have one till I'm at least in college. High school relationships are just a joke(or it seems to be in my High School), and I feel I need to focus more on my schoolwork and myself. Once I have a stable job, and am happy, I will then be willing to share that happiness with someone else.

Edited September 27, 2012 by Bobthecableman

[Hawk 100]

Currently in college, no relationship. Honestly I'm okay with that. Right now a relationship would be too much of a burden and I want to graduate from college with as few attachments and as little baggage as possible. Once I am out in the world and have a job... who knows?

[Abstract 832]

I've been in my current relationship for two years (anniversary was yesterday, in fact ) and I couldn't be happier.

 

Relationships take work, dedication, trust, desire, and time. Relationships that fail are usually due to one or more of those aspects not being followed by one or both partners. Trust me, if the spark is (still) there, and both of you are willing to do whatever it takes, it will work out.

 

You gotta find the right girl/guy to have a good relationship, which can be frustrating. There are people that you think you really like, but time will show you that it was only a fleeting feeling. Then there are those who are completely obsessed with you, whom you have zero interest in. (that can be extremely stressful if you have trouble hurting people's feelings.)

 

I'm no veteran, expert relationship-advice-giver, (that sounded better in my head) but if there's one thing I've learned in my experience; Love is mind blowing. It will break your heart, smash it into pieces and toss them into the cold, unforgiving river. But if you play your cards right, it can near instantly put them back together again, and heal it so it feels like it never happened. It will bring out emotions and thoughts you never thought possible, or could even imagine. You'll reach new levels of caring and kindness, and anger and resentment, that will make you do unbelievable things, and unforgivable things. Even if you're a normally logical, emotionless person; it'll throw all of that right out the window when it hits you hard enough.

 

It's a constant battle; you can never let your guard down, even for a moment. This makes it stressful and difficult, but you realize how worth it it is when it gives back to you, and you don't regret it at all. I've made some generous gestures and actions I never knew I could do without care for myself. And I've also made the worst mistakes of my life when I got complacent and stopped fighting for it.

 

In all, Love is something you really can't explain. No matter who you're talking to, no matter how hard you try. It's just unreal.

 

But, you have to go find it. There will be bad relationships, and that seems like a really big deterring factor for many people. Heartbreak sucks; it really is an emotion so torturous, it hurts physically. Everywhere. Not to mention the indescribable damage it does to your mind. It's hard to imagine coming back from something like that, but it does happen. And when you do find that one person; the one who gives you motivation to do your best, the one who makes you truly happy, who makes your life worth living; you'll realize how all of that bad needed to happen, how it was all worth it. How'd you'd endure a hundred times worse what you felt, if it meant you could find that one person; it's just amazing.

 

I know a lot of y'all are still in high school, maybe even middle school. You can date around during these years, there's nothing wrong with it. Just know that you probably shouldn't take these kinds of relationships too seriously; think about it, you're dating these people pretty much out of convenience; you go to the same school, you see each other every day; it's easy to get to know people when you're forced to be together. The real challenge is to go out of your way, and find someone who truly wants to take time out of their day, just to be with you. Someone you would otherwise have no real contact with, who chooses to see you and talk to you because they really want to, not just because you're forced to see each other, and you're close by. This takes a lot of searching, a lot of socializing, and most of all, patience. And trust me; the inevitable failures and time that seemed wasted, will all be worth it in the end.

 

I'm going to get off of my soapbox now. Just saw some of the replies in this thread, and wanted to let you all know; it's not hopeless, don't give up. You'll find someone, someday, who makes you complete. It'll be the most difficult thing you've ever done, but totally worth it in the end. Keep your heads up.

[spas-ticShotty 3,584]

I've been avoiding to go into a relationship. I've been getting very picky on who to chose as a future wife . I'm strict on what qualities the girl needs in order to be romantically involved with me. They basically have to be more or less very similiar to AJ personality and appearance wise . Of course, I can always have a girl as a best-best friend forever, even though I'm not sure if I have one yet (Mah best friend who is a girl is actually Clarity. I'm just not all that good at talking to girls IRL)

[Brave Hooves 113]

>21

>Never been in a relationship

>Social life with less life than a desert

>Forever alone

 

I don't see it happening for a long time if at all ever. I want one but I've accepted that it may never happen. In my experience women even here in college don't even bat an eye at me, and the few that do and try to talk to me, I just don't know what to even say and so I just keep walking. I've got no money or confidence anyways so what can I do? Why even bother anyways, Most seem to just want pieces of shit like this anyways

 

 

[Dusty Soul 2,611]

I'm not in a relationship as of the moment, but oh how I want to. I don't see a way I could find one, because I'm not exactly the one everyone wants to date... also I'm insanely anti-social, so want one yes... Way of getting one maybe...

[Lost Profile 644]

Even tho I'm one of the "good looking" guys... I don't have a gf... But I'm being patient about this... I have video games to play to keep me busy till some gal asks me out...

 

I know for a fact that one girl "likes" me... Il wait till she gets the nerv to ask me...

[Sugarcube 213]

In a relationship, we live together have a dog, have car insurance together. We will celebrate our 2 year anniversary this Feburary. I love him a lot and we will also be loooking to getting engaged when I graduate college this spring. He is my best friend, my soul mate. Since day one we have just clicked and it was so easy to get along, he is the first person I have ever felt complety safe with (which is HUGE for me) as well as the only man I have ever been able to completely trust. *blushes* I will stop gushing now

[pjsforever 89]

Not in one, don't really want one, and I definitely don't need one. I'd say I'm better off not being in a relationship. I haven't found anyone (and I doubt I will at 15) so there's no point in having a one anyway.

[clue 31]

I have a boyfriend, we have been together for about two years now (Surprising due to our age, 13/14)

I don't nessisaily need a relationship, but it is nice knowing that you can always have someone to lean on when you need some leanin'

[Envy 6,155]

I'm not in a relationship, and haven't been in one for a few years.

 

I kind of do 'need' one, but at the same time I know I shouldn't. With my circumstances it is too late for me now.

 

^The situation has not changed, at all. =(

 

It's just that I now have crushes that are totally dragging me down. As if it isn't painful enough otherwise. =(

[Pachirisu 42]

I was in one 10 years ago. It failed in an epic way and I've never been bothered/interested trying for a new one. It's not something I really believe in or see the point in.

 

Fair enough to anyone who likes all that lovey stuff...it's just not for me.

[Devious Detonation 442]

I am not in a relationship... And a relationship at this time would not be good... I spend most of the time with the band and I barely have time to stay in these Forums.

-sigh-

[Modphase 1,271]

Nah man, I think relationships at my age are really stupid. I'de rather wait till I'm at least 18, because I've seen the sheer stupidity of relationships at my age. They're either fake, the affection for each other is very low, and their so called dates, are really when they hang out with five other of their friends, and bring their boyfriend/girlfriend along. So yeah, I'de rather wait.

[Sticky Apple 46]

Currently, I'm in a long distance relationship. She's a strange one but I love her all the same. Sometimes, it's hard to handle how she feels, but other times, I'm on top of the world with her. That's how it goes I guess. And to think, had I never watched ponies, I never would have met her. The stars aligned for this to even happen... and I've never been happier.

[Archangel 143]

I would love to be in a relationship. But unfortunately I'm that one guy who hasn't even hugged a girl who wasn't in his family.

 

Plus I don't even know if I could get a girlfriend. I've never tried. None of the girls I've met have ever really interested me.

[Guest]

It would be nice to be in one at the moment I was in one previously but it didn't work out because we didn't have the same interests so that didn't help :/

Edited September 30, 2012 by Guest

[koopakungfu1fan 4]

I wont mind to be in one lady pony live in longmont colorado XD

but really anyone i am 13 XD I doubt anyone lady pony does though oh well XD