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Hmm...simple.

 

1. Kind and respectful (definite must)

2. Respects personal space (I don't like people sticking to me like a barnacle)

3. I like em a bit tomboyish (rawr)

4. Books and vid games (same interest = more things to talk about)

 

Faithful, a biggest must-have in a relationship. I'm ready. Come at me, sis :P

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Someone who accepts me for who I am, who respect me and doesn't try to change me to someone they would like.

I would act the same way back.

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someone who does not slap me in the face thats all i ask

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I'm sorta more picky when it comes to the one I want to love. These are the qualities (Both physical and mental) that I'd look for

 

-Pretty

-Blonde

-Southern accent (Or just Southern in general)

-Maybe freckles (The aren't a mandate, but....)

-Kind

-Respectful of one's opinions

-Can start a good conversation with any type of person or will listen in to mine (Asperger's makes it hard for me to start a good conversation)

-Active (Maybe she can help me get off mah lazy ass)

-Honest (Saw that coming, didn't you)

 

 

If I were to narrow it down to the qualities I want the most, they would be....

 

-Blonde

-Southern

-Pretty

-Honest

-Good at starting conversations

-Respectful/Tolerant

 

......isn't that much different from the top list :P

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(edited)

If I ever want to get into a relationship:

 

-someone who's willing to understand me

-someone who doesn't feel the need to hug me every 5 minutes I'm with them

-they can understand that I'm asexual and that I don't want a sexual relationship, or someone who is asexual

-they can understand that I like my space and may not want to see them all the time

-is intelligent and enjoys history, science and art like I do. That last part is 'optional' though

Edited by Invader Raiyn

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Somebody who does not treat me like dirt.

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(edited)

I would wish for my girlfriend to be the following:

 

-Pegasister (optional)

-Can take a joke

-Cute

-Funny

-Can play a video game with me

-Respectful to my family, me, and other people

-Doesn't cheat

-And yes, I would also like a girlfriend who likes to cuddle :)

 

That's my wishlist. Now the hard part is going out and matching it...

Edited by McSaltShaker

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There's so much I find I just cannot list them all.

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If anything I would say they either like my hobbies or at least respect them.

I don't want to be with someone who is forcing me to change the things i like.

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She would need to be smart and knows about computers so I dont feel like im talking to a brick, understands me, not racist (I wont date a KKK member or anything like that) and need other features that are kinda sexual and maybe only men will understand, (if you get what I mean)

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I'd love to find that someone who won't judge me for watching the show. Also I'd like someone to be open and talk to me when something happens.

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I try not to base everything on looks in a girl. I like her to be smart, nice, easy to talk to, and funny. I'd like her to be at least somewhat attractive-looking, and have some values. I'd like her to be faithful, as I would try my hardest to be faithful as well.

 

That's what to me would be the perfect girlfriend, even though I've never had one. :( </3

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This might be a bit excessive, but I don't want a girl who drinks or smokes. I am a strict prohibitionist (although I'm for legalization of marijuana, it's kind of hard to explain) and I want to raise a family that is for the most part drug-free. Once my kids turn 18 though they can do whatever the hell they want. :P

 

Other things include the generic "needs to be respectful, kind, and has my sense of humor" statements. I don't care if she's a Pegasister or not, just as long as she accepts me watching and liking the show.

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- I think my girlfriend has to be..

- honest

- To share my beliefs for the most part.

- To be kind

- Has to have a sense of humor.

- Is ok with me eventuelly telling them I'm a brony :P.

- Not a look concerned Diva.

- Enjoys cuddling :)

- Will be there for me even when I'm annoying or rude or misunderstanding depressed, or even during good times.

 

And maybe many more.

Although I'm not really concerned overly on looks.(But I do have to say I have a bit of a preference of red heads.)

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Okay, what I would look for in a guy.

I'll put * next to the essential ones, the ones I wouldn't even consider without.

I'll put a # next to ones I'll go either way on.

I'll put a ¥ next to ones that I prefer.

 

-Tall

-Strong ¥

-Likes to cuddle (I am a big cuddler. It's my favourite part of a relationship)*

-Loves me for me*

-Likes music

-Cares about kids and animals*

-Has a future*

-Sweet*

-Will tolerate my many adventures*

-Will come do things with me#

-Quiet#

-Would rather stay at home#

-Laughs a lot ¥

-Likes to hold hands

-Knows how to kiss#

-Has Tasteful Facial Hair ¥ (Yummy)

 

 

 

It seems I have quite the list... Now I feel bad... Are my standards to high?

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Not in any kind of order..

  • Should be a gamer..
  • Kindness!!!
  • Adventurous
  • Shares the same interests I so
  • Sense of humor
  • Somepony I can talk about anything with
  • Laughs alot

 

 

Notice how looks isn't on the list? Yeah.

Edited by Smitty

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Haha well, for me the first and most important thing is if she’s at least mildly nerdy. :P

 

My last girlfriend was really into games and anime and it was just an awesome relationship.

 

Outside of that if she’s pretty, and down to earth than I’m game.

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~Someone that can make me smile

~Someone that is honest and loyal

~Someone nice and giving

 

......Basically I want a pony boyfriend o-o

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These are my requirements:

 

- Kind

- Good personality

- Likes me for being me/doesn't want me to change

- Accepts the fact I'm a brony and gamer

- Good humour

- Weird like me (not sick weird)

- Pretty (not required, but added bonus

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- Hates the world (so I can have someone to vent my frustrations about the stupidity of humanity to on a regular basis)

- Kind and compassionate

- Variety of humors (doesn't find just one or two things funny, but can see the humor in most anything)

- Likes ponies (not a HUGE deal, but definitely is points in their favor)

- SOME type of artistic talent (be it drawing, sculpting, music, writing, etc.)

- Athletic/Able to run four-plus miles without puking or dropping dead

- Looks presentable/upper-class (not hole-y jeans, death metal band t-shirts...that wardrobe just looks trashy to me)

 

And I have a lady-friend lined up to ask out this week, and she is all of these things. :wub:

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i honestly dont look. im a happily single male with little interest in relationships anymore. but ill play along anyway. i look for chicks that are kinda punky or country, can drive stick, tattoos are a plus, listen to the same music, might dabble in video games and wrenching. tomboy with a feminne edge that can get dirty and get her nails messed up, but still dress up and hit the bars the same night.

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Hmm, in a boyfriend I look for a fem. top, who likes to cuddle and has similar tastes to me, while also having his own interests and tastes. Also, I like to be a little smarter than them, because if I feel that I am going out with someone vastly smarter than me, I can't handle that or be comfortable around them.

 

Also as I frequently have breakdowns and slight suicidal urges, I need them not to dump me as soon as I get depressed.

 

In a girlfriend, I look for them to be a guy, who is like I described previously.

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I would look for a guy who was funny, but nice. I try to look past looks most of the time as well, but I wouldn't want to go out with anyone who I couldn't look at on a regular basis. :P

As for personality, I'd want someone on the shyer side. I dunno why. :P

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(edited)

One who understands me.

 

Effectively, also:

 

  • Smart - But not egotistical/narcissistic
  • Introverted
  • Good Personality
  • Good Morals
  • Accepting
  • Nice.

I do have a difference between nice and personality, because I see them as separate.

Edited by ~Luminiferous Ether~

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