Do you feel loved?

[NightOwl 912]

Yeah, I feel that my family and friends loves me.

 

I have had arguments with my family before but I know deep down they love me . 

Edited January 15, 2015 by NightOwl

[Wolfeus Silverpaw 301]

Can I just take a moment to express how utterly ridiculous I find this topic? I mean, I'm sorry, but it's just flat-out depressing. There are many people out there, including myself, that don't feel loved, and this topic is not solving that problem. In fact, I bet it's making things worse because all the unloved people are seeing the positive posts about the ones who actually do. That, again, doesn't solve anything.

 

I propose we lock this topic, delete it, whatever, before something traumatic happens.

[Here No Longer 5,276]

Until a few months ago, not really. Cared for by a few people yes? But not really loved. But now I do.

 

On 1/15/2015 at 6:55 PM, Wolfeus Silverpaw said:

Can I just take a moment to express how utterly ridiculous I find this topic? I mean, I'm sorry, but it's just flat-out depressing. There are many people out there, including myself, that don't feel loved, and this topic is not solving that problem. In fact, I bet it's making things worse because all the unloved people are seeing the positive posts about the ones who actually do. That, again, doesn't solve anything.

 

I propose we lock this topic, delete it, whatever, before something traumatic happens.

Edited August 17, 2019 by Dustlicious

[ExplosionMare 18,062]

Yes, I feel very loved by all my friends and family.

[TheRockARooster 51,197]

Loved?

*sigh*

Yes and no (sometimes), 50/50.

[Lucky Bolt 35,063]

I think I do? I know my family and closest friends love me. And that’s good enough.

[Misty Gust 708]

1 minute ago, Lucky Bolt said:

I think I do? I know my family and closest friends love me. And that’s good enough.

And your boyfriend AND girlfriend do too.

[Cash In 22,313]

Eh, sort of. I've learnt the hard way that sometimes other people don't really matter, so I'm not too upset about it

Edited November 6, 2021 by Cash_In

[The Historian 516]

Thankfully, yes. I have supportive parents and even more supportive brother. I have an amazing best friend and a super wonderful boyfriend. So... I'm loved, even if my depression tries to tell me otherwise.

[Emerald Claus 24,868]

100%

I have my friends and family with me forever and always.

[Monsoon 1,662]

I never feel loved or appreciated not by my friends or my family I've just learned to deal with it.

[Dreambiscuit 9,691]

I feel loved quite often. When you give love you get love back; it sets the mood and others pick up on it. Keep it rolling. 

[They call me Loyalty 1,948]

Yes, if we understand love as an intention beyond the condition of polarity. Unconditional, beyond polarity. There is no preferencial affection, based on the aspects we ignore, or wish to ignore about ourselves. Everything is known as equal. It's indescribable, since it lacks the polarity that creates condition.
Or the love in the polar, more partial form, in which the positive polarity is gained at the expense of the negative isolation, and vice versa. To ignore a part of the whole is to not know oneself.

So, I often create the negative counterpart in my relationships, if they are positive, and vice versa, to see whether the human being is capable to see beyond the first law of polarity, conflict, and truly access universal integration. I create chaos, and naturally observe if the collective can see beyond the illusion of separation. My intention, which is love, is to bring awareness into reality. And love exists in many ways, some may give life, while others take it away. The key is conflict, it is, how to say, the friction that produces movement, development and evolution. And also time.

There are many elements in this life that could be considered harmful, and this, I would also understand as love, an intention of creating conflict that is the driving force of my evolution. Not any different from cold making you look for warmth.

So, considering the nature of reality, I would say I am loved by the universe. But this love goes beyond what our ego perceives as "beneficial"

Edited August 18, 2019 by They call me Loyalty

[Meson Bolt 2,648]

Not quite, really. My entire family and I share different religions, and it's a pretty big rift between us. Especially when there's so many of them. I look like the evil little sinner who's strayed from the flock. The judgment of that many people makes it difficult to even try to connect with them. :v

I do have friends though. A couple friends in real life, some really good friends online... but that's it really. I've learned to be okay with this, but it would be nice for someone to become something more than just a friend with me.

[TBD 17,254]

I'm okay with tough love. If might not seems like "love"  to others but anything cliche will make me cringe. Bottom line is, I won't asks to be loved, whether people hate me or not, all I asks from them is respect and let the action do the talk. And likewise. 

[Sherem 4,807]

From my family, yes Definetly...but in what an "Eros" love means, well I gave up finding somebody since there is no woman in the world that would like to spend her time with me

[Clawdeen 14,148]

Made me think of this song

 

 

But on topic no I don’t really feel loved.

[Tom Gallagher 33,588]

Sometimes it's on and off. There are times where I feel that nopony cares about me and there are times I do feel loved, especially when I'm on here. 

[Sonic Shimmer 4,132]

Yes I have a few people who love me and (maybe most importantly) I love myself too.

[ExplosionMare 18,062]

Yes, by many people 

(not by this character limit though it always hates me )

[Clawdeen 14,148]

My answer is still a no 

 

[ChikaChan 7,323]

I feel loved by spirits ever since I used a ouija board a year agothey loved me more than my PARENTS!

[Savy 5,077]

I'm loved by my family and closest friends, so yeah I guess I can say I do.

[Fluttershyfan94 5,742]

No not really, then again I'm Icelandic and love is more an American thing. I do think my family loves me, we simply show love differently then in America. Love is being successful, you earn love by making others proud of you. 

[ExplosionMare 18,062]

Yes, very much so, even if I need a few reminders every now and then